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A Report from Christmas alone 2007

Because of the redevelopment of the church it would have been impossible to hold this at EMC. The committee visited other churches and contacted another alternative venue, but, unfortunately their facilities were not suitable. It appeared that this event would have to be cancelled for this year. We owe the management of Swail House a huge debt of gratitude that, when approached by Pam Ellison and Audrey Broderick they agreed that we could have the use of their premises so then it was 'all systems go'.

Considering that it was a completely new venue everything went well and on Christmas day about 74 people sat down to lunch, which included a great team of helpers, both from EMC and the community. Many of you will have seen the Mayor's appeal for help in the local press and this brought forth new faces, including young people who joined in with great gusto, blowing up balloons, taking charge of the music and helping with serving and hosting our guests. They also proved to be excellent washer uppers!

 

After lunch we had entertainment including one of the youngsters singing Silent Night, a topical comedy sketch, a comic recitation and a music quiz, all ably compeered by Fred Imms. Trevor Bellinger had videoed the Queens's speech and we all watched this. Whilst the entertainment was taking place tea and mince pies were being prepared and then after this it was time for the drivers to return to take our guests home, each with a present and a piece of Christmas cake.

All this did not take place without many people working hard to ensure it was a great success.

Trevor and Elaine Bellinger did a great job organising the drivers to bring guests to and from the lunch. When they arrived their coats were taken and hung up, they were greeted by hosts and hostesses and shown to their seats where they were served with a glass of Beryl Furness' famous non-alcoholic fruit punch and then non-alcoholic wine with the meal. While all this was happening Pam Ellison and Cathy Mackie were busy preparing an excellent Christmas lunch, which was served right on time, after David Winwood had said grace. The Mayor and her consort (her son) were there to speak to everyone before the meal began and this was much appreciated.

 

There are too many people to thank individually but we do thank the following who donated items; Longhursts (undertakers) for the Christmas puddings, Joan Thomas for the beautiful Christmas cake, Margaret Luxmore and Val Imms for delicious trifles and everyone who donated mince pies.

Before the event we thank all who came on Christmas Eve to prepare the vegetables, Jen and David Barry who helped us set up the tables and decorate them so beautifully. Gwenda Froud who bought all the presents and she and her friends who wrapped them all.

Finally, thanks to all who gave donations on the day, before and after, which will enable us to start next years planning with confidence. We personally thank all who helped to make our first Christmas Alone such a success

Chris and Beryl Dempsey.


Christmas Alone 2007 earlier report

This lunch was a great occasion, when just over seventy folk sat down to a splendid meal followed by entertainment enjoyed by all.

 

 

It was delightful that Councillor Jean Steer (left) Mayor of Epsom and Ewell and her escort were able to attend in spite of a heavy official Christmas schedule.
This function was organised by Epsom Methodist Church under the direction of Chris and Beryl Dempsey (left) but well supported by a  team of volunteers from a wide range of Epsom and Ashtead Churches, without such support these functions cannot take place.

 

So a great big thankyou to all who gave up their Christmas day and not forgetting the willing drivers who ferried guest to and from the occasion.

We are also grateful to the management of Swale House for allowing us the use of their excellent facilities.


Christmas Alone 2007

The Christmas Day lunch will be held in the Bradbury Lodge, Swail House, Epsom from 12.30 to 4.00pm.

If you have not received an invitation but wish to join us, please give your name to the Epsom Methodist Church Office 01372 728535 or e-mail.

We would also be grateful for donations of mince pies.

We URGENTLY need volunteer drivers

to bring guests to and from the event.

If you can help in this way please contact Elaine & Trevor Bellinger via 01372 728535 or e-mail


Christmas Alone 2006


 

Once again we had a super day with a wonderful meal, turkey with all the trimmings, Christmas pudding, mince pies, trifle and Christmas cake. The food is the most important part of the day and Pam Ellison and Cathy Mackie do a superb job so I am really grateful to them.

We fed 71 people this year including the Mayor of Epsom and Ewell, David Wood and his Escort, Sister Miss Barbara Wood who joined us for the Christmas Day service and then stayed for the whole day - it was good to have them with us. After lunch Sheila Carpenter organised a musical quiz with the theme “Around the British Isles” which was much appreciated by our guests and this was followed by the Queen’s speech and tea and cake before our guests went home.

None of this could happen without the help of the dozens of people who do something to make the lunch a success. Those who supported the Carol singing, which provides valuable money towards the cost of the lunch, those who donate Christmas puddings, mince pies, trifles and the Christmas cake, those who organise the transport which is so vital and those who transport our guests to and from the Church; the people who prepare 15kg of vegetables and the other food, the hosts and hostesses, those who wrap the presents, who lay the tables and decorate the Hall who do the essential task of the washing up and those who help in many other ways. I am really, really grateful to you all and my thanks to everyone who has supported the lunch over the years. It has been a wonderful event to be involved with.

It just leaves me to wish Chris and Beryl Dempsey all the best as they take over the organisation of the lunch for 2007 and to Elaine and Trevor Bellinger who are relieving Jen and David Barry of the task of organising the transport.

Carol Stringer



 


History of Christmas Alone

It was early in 1992 that Barbara Warren and I discussed with David Bridge the possibility of offering lunch on Christmas Day to people who would otherwise spend the day alone and since that first lunch in 1992, the numbers we entertain have grown and grown. In 1994 we asked the Ewell Churches to provide a lunch for those living in Ewell, as our numbers were getting too big, then the Banstead Churches started a lunch and 3 years ago a friend of mine, who had helped with our lunch, enthused the Churches in Wallington to have a lunch.

To share Christmas Day with others rather than sitting at home alone is really appreciated by those who join us for lunch and it is a tremendous outreach opportunity. Next year will be our 15th lunch and it will be the last one which I co-ordinate. It is therefore very important that someone (could it be you?) steps in to continue this outreach into the community. In no way do I do everything myself as there is a good team of people who take on different responsibilities both before and on the day and because I have a checklist of what I do and when I do it, there is no reason for it to be the same person who co-ordinates the lunch each year.

The reason I am telling you all this now is because I want the person who takes on this role to have the chance to work in tandem with me so that they can see how everything works. It would be very sad if the Christmas Day lunch comes to an abrupt end because one person in a very large Church decides they want to stop.

Please will you consider whether this is something you could do and if you would like to know more, please will you give your name to the Church Office.

I know that Focus is circulated to all the Churches in Epsom and right from the beginning we had hoped that the lunch would be an ecumenical project but this has never really materialised. If there is someone from one of the other Churches who would like to co-ordinate the lunch, I would be delighted to hear from you.

Carol Stringer


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